Amarilys

The I accept loot is an option that can be turned off (I started using this like 3 days ago and already know it so just check your setup and you will find it...quite easy)
Also he can update an time he wants and you can download or not the updates....it's notcause he updated that you need to have latest version: you can just go a few days with an older if you choose to. Just wish the "you're using an older version" sign would fade after a while...i mean after a while can get a bit anoying. But then you get used to the square and look the other way.