I cant get my friends list to come up unless i join a wait list, then it says "you have received a new friends request" left clicking the message is the only way the friends list comes up but its blank on every tab. =<
 

If your friends list wont open (It should open by hitting O), then you might have a conflict with another addons. Disable all other addons other than oQueue then try and open your friends list.

If it opens then look for the addon which is causing it. If it still wont open try disabling oQueue and see if you can open it.

When you are using oQueue and it says you have recieved a friend request you can just ignore those notifications as they are just friend requests which have information attached to them, oQueue reads the information then automatically declines the invite. 

issue is resolved, thanks =)