I just started (trying) using Oqueue. I find the right group, it says a have a friend request but I dont. What am i doing wrong?

Due to the nature of oQueue, and the cross realm networking it accomplishes, it is required for the addon to utilize whispers, battle.net whispers, and friend requests to transmit information between users. There are several instances in which you will automatically send, or receive a friend request. When oQueue sends or receives a friend request, it first reads the short note that is in the friend request, and then accepts, or denies the friend request depending on what information was contained in the note. This all happens in the blink of an eye.

TLDR: Ignore most friend request notifications while using oQueue.

Tip: On the setup tab you can choose to auto hide friend requests. Please note that this has been known to hide other WoW system messages such as loot notifications, and other similar messages.

Once you click the waitlist button, you will recieve a friend request which contains information in it. oQueue will automatically process this information. If the group leader decides to invite you to their group, you will recieve another friend request, oQueue will automatically accept this friend request, and you will be added to the group.